Naivete; It Would Be funny If Not So Sad.


As I’ve stated many times on The Phantom Tollbooth, I’m utterly in awe over the differences between the genders and how these same differences shape our consequences in rather unique ways during life. The one thing in particular which always grabs my attention; the way Father Time seems to be much more forgiving on us dudez than he is on the womenz.  Take it for what it’s worth, but I find it utterly astounding that a man in his late 30’s may not be out of ‘the race’ yet in terms of the dating/marriage market but a woman of the same lineage may be far closer to folding the deck that she would like to admit.

In addition, just how far removed from reality most women tend to be nowadays in terms of this potentially severe situation unique to their gender. More importantly, how many of them rocket to a dismal future with little to no regard as to what it is they are actually doing to themselves in the process.

I’ve always wondered as to what is going through a young woman’s mind, as she’s knee deep in her heady days of high market value, yet embarking on a future which odds are will set her up for a future fraught with loneliness and more cats than your local humane society. I have to thank Sunshine Mary for illuminating such thoughts for our consideration in one of her latest posts.

I would suggest that you read the whole thing; her analysis of the situation is empathetic, sobering, and above all spot on. This quote from the ‘heroine’ of the article, who went by the handle of “A” had my head literally spinning as I read it.

I’m a true feminist,” she added. “I’m a strong woman. I know what I want… Ten years from now, no one will remember — I will not remember — who I have slept with,” A. said. “But I will remember, like, my transcript, because it’s still there. I will remember what I did. I will remember my accomplishments and places my name is hung on campus.

Really? Listen, as I’ve stated before, I’m not for pigeonholing women into certain roles, and why would I when women are doing this so effectively all on their own? Most women want to get married, but are so high on themselves at a young age they don’t see the forest for the trees. We don’t need statistics to tell us that when women are at the SMV peak (15 – 25) men are like buses. It doesn’t matter if they turn an approaching man down, there WILL be another along in a few minutes. The issue is that many women aren’t schooled in how men work in relation to their diminishing market value.

No, women in the past would have taken them to task for being so foolish. Giving them the very painful but much needed truth in order to better preserve their uncertain futures. The issue is that the older generational women needed to show them the way has been perverted for selfish reasons and young women by and large are left to their own devices.

What I find so interesting about the above quote, that this woman, and so many of her compatriots, are so completely ignorant of the consequences their actions will wreak on their respective futures. As we all know (or should by this point) negative consequences won’t come to pass for her at THIS point, they only happen to other people. She’s deep in the days where she has a regular FWB and men are probably hitting her up on a weekly basis. She has no inkling whatsoever that the parade of men coming into her life will ever stop so she has nothing to lose, thereby having no incentive to change her ways.

However, that escalator of men DOES stop eventually so let’s take a look at what former blogger Troll King had to say to see where A’s future most likely will end up.

I smell some projection that could be cut like a hot knife through butter. It is kinda interesting to look at baby boomer feminists these days. My mom is one. So are all of her friends. So, I have been around them and heard them gossip about things and I have seen their life paths dwindle as I grew up. Most are divorced and don’t have good relationships with their children. Many desperately want attention, whether it is from showing off their meager career success or from pestering their kids, assuming they have any or any that aren’t dead from suicide, for grandkids.

What is really fascinating is how much they mellow out as they age. Their stories of putting on pant suits with thick pads in the shoulders to give themselves more masculine authority while fighting “the man” at work gives way to a sorta sad (if I gave a shit about those evil cunts I would think it was sad) realization that their lives were empty and hollow and fueled by something hazey irrationality that can really only be classified as some sort of mental illness that started to fade after they took off the padded pant-suit jackets (do you guys remember those from the 80s and 90s? My mom used to wear them all the time and so did all the women she knew and now they all dress much more conservatively…interesting eh?) and stopped trying to be men 24/7.

Again, that entire section is nothing but projection that is not just about her but applies to the majority of baby boomer feminists.”

(emphasis mine)

Take another look at that folks.

We have older more mature women who had sacrificed for career and when it was all over they found themselves chock full of accolades and virtually alone. What did those accomplishments give them at the end of the day? Where did the value of those accolades go now that their youth has given way to maturity? Yes this is only ONE anecdote in regards to women, however Troll King’s Mother and her friends aren’t alone.

We have Liz Bollick, who has a career in entertainment yet was still vexed at ‘the system’ because she chose freedom and her career over marriage to her former fiancée. He moved on and married without her, but at least she still has her career.

As one of my female and engaged co worker’s would say; “Oopie!”

Then we have the illustrious Germaine Greer; ‘the saucy feminist that even men liked”; who eventually became a surly older woman when all she had left WAS her previous accolades. I’m willing to bet that Germaine is probably more successful that A will ever be; yet that didn’t keep her from being alone. Maybe Ms. Greer’s brusqueness has arisen from such loneliness. Perhaps, but could it possibly be that her surliness has cropped up from the knowledge that her own choices have lead her to her current (and irreversible) fate with the pained knowledge that she and she alone had the power to have altered things for the better?

Finally (for this example) we have the illustrious Liz Jones and her current soul mate ‘Squeaky’. She actually had her own nuptials at one point in time and enjoyed wedded bliss for a scant 4 years. In the end, her own unwavering (bitchy?) attitude seemed to assist in the undermining of said marital arrangement and now she finds herself in a resolute relationship…with a four legged feline. This should offer no worries to A as Liz still has an memorable career in journalism in which she can find her absolution.

Right, had anyone read the part about how she tried to get pregnant by stealing her partner’s sperm as she was entitled to it? C’mon…it’s fantastic and deathly intriguing!!!

A is gung ho about her future achievements, that even if she doesn’t find love she will have her professional accomplishments to fall back on for satisfaction. In truth I really have no issue with this as far as women go, however, when we took a look at some women who had taken this very same approach to life, the results seemed very sobering.  Gotta wonder as a woman how it would feel to come to the point of no return, with a sack full of career accomplishments, and none of those even turn an eligible man’s heads. To be seen as nothing but a cog in the wheel, a tool to be used by company’s and nothing more beyond that.

Here’s a scenario for you; imagine a late 30’s , single career woman going out to dinner with her male co workers at an eatery. They talk shop as they sit down and look at the menu when an attractive 20 something waitress arrives to take their order. Imagine the consternation said career woman feels as this waif of a woman with nary the education, experience, or accolades our ‘heroine’ has achieved seems to garner the attention of all the men at the table while she is left reeling. What’s the deal gang; that her accomplishments do not translate whatsoever into the dating market, and she wallows in frustration as this woman who is younger, more approachable, and more ladylike grabs all the attention that she hasn’t seen in quite some time.

The bottom line; while a career is ALMOST as good a thing to a woman as it is to a man, the issue is simply this. A man having a very good career almost always adds to his SMV/MMV, while it virtually always detracts from a woman’s. I bet money that this scenario or something very similar to it happens in Western Countries almost every day as women measure up their stock and realize that a younger, more ladylike woman trumps her amazing professional resume in the dating market.

I find this whole thing ironic as A is unwittingly giving us a glimpse of what Liz Bollick’s, Germaine Greer’s, and Liz Jones’ thought process looked like way back when they still had significant time on the clock. It’s utterly mind boggling to see someone so dead set on doing something, which will ultimately undermine their own values go balls to the wall in doing so.

Sadly, our warnings will fall on deaf ears until it’s too late.


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Feminism = The Intentional Destruction of Society?



Denizens of the Manosphere have undoubtedly encountered this assertion from time to time. That Feminism as a movement has society in their cross-hairs and simply wish it’s destruction, therefore freeing women from the chains of the evil Patriarchy. You see, once society has been destroyed, then women will finally be free to pursue what they wish unencumbered by the controlling hands of men and the Patriarchy. Now, as much as this thought process might seem to logically fit, I highly doubt that Feminists really have the total deconstruction of society firmly in their sights.

The main reason is simply that some women (read; not bl**dy many) are still braying about how men need to man up and others can actually see where their money train may be drying up while still trying to have their cake and eat it too. No gang, in reality Feminists don’t wish for the demise of society in it’s current form, as once the party finally winds down, so does the perks which they desperately need. So why do they work so diligently in sniping their noses to spite their faces?

Here’s my theory on the matter, which can be somewhat explained by an episode of Star Trek; The Next Generation called “Tapestry”.

Here we have the illustrious Jean Luc Picard; Captain of the Federation’s Flagship, the Starship;  Enterprise NCC-1701D. Sadly he had undergone a mishap and got electrocuted, which brought him to the brink of death. You see, old Jean Luc has an artificial heart, which didn’t take too well to the excess electricity pumped into his body during an accident. While in ‘purgatory’, he happens to meet up with a recurring, omnipotent nemesis of his named Q who promises to change the outcome of his life by taking him to the very point where an accident had compromised his life so he wouldn’t require his heart transplant in the first place.


Skeptical, but with his back against the wall, Jean Luc agrees and is whisked away back to his days at the federation academy, just a few scant days before this important turning point in his life. Not only is he hell bent on changing his ways and avoiding an almost terminal, but pivotal altercation with some violent aliens at a federation canteen, but also to right some wrongs which he had come to regret.



As Jean Luc’s trip down ‘memory lane’ almost climaxes, he is in the canteen with his comrades, and although it should have been a happy affair, his actions have caused uncomfortable tension between himself and his mates. The fateful moment approaches, and with his knowledge of the future, Jean Luc avoids the pivotal confrontation, sparing his heart and his dismal future. Q appears to congratulate him and then whisks him away to his heart healthy future which should seem promising right?




Well, Jean Luc wakes up to find himself on the Enterprise…however he’s not the Captain. He’s a botanist, a damn good botanist…but still JUST a botanist. He’s clearly not satisfied with this new turn of events and even requests to speak with the ships counselor and his former first officer to see if he can achieve more with his life. They cordially tell him that he is clearly capable, but is lacking in certain abilities, which would be important for him to be considered officer material.

Now that Jean Luc is clearly disappointed by this life, who should appear, none other that Q himself. Q explains that his near death experience in the Federation Canteen may have cost him his heart, but it gave him something more. It gave him the burning desire to save lives at all cost since he realized how precious it really was. Since he had avoided that previous fate, he had learned to play it safe; therefore becoming a leading botanist on the Federations flagship, but that was all that he had.



In other words, his new choices had unraveled the very fabric which made his previous and preferred life possible.

Now…knowing this (and I will touch upon this fact later) Jean Luc made the choice that living this current life wasn’t worth it, and if he had to die in his previous one, that was good enough for him. He demanded that Q bring him back to the pivotal moment which led to his losing his own heart and once there, the old Jean Luc stood up to some rowdy aliens which led to him being run through, thus setting his life back to ‘normal’. The lucky thing for him…Q had restored more that just his future and our illustrious Captain didn’t die from his accident. He was resuscitated having learned the value of some very painful lessons in life.



The point I’m trying to make is that just like Jean Luc Picard, Feminists and their movement haven’t the foggiest notion of the consequences their actions have and will indeed cause in the long run. Yes their mandate is undermining society, but the reality is that they don’t comprehend what it is that they are doing. As The Fifth Horseman likes to point out on The Spearhead (and whether we like to admit it or not…he’s usually right) time and again, most women aren’t the best at comprehending cause and effect. Now, on to a very key difference between Jean Luc and Feminism as a whole, which needs to be said. Once Jean Luc was shown the error of his ways, he changed his choices as he wished to avoid the obvious negative outcome they would lead to. The subject of the matter is that the negative issues behind Feminism have been shared with Feminists, unfortunately to no avail.

I say this not to garner sympathy for Feminism, but to show everyone other aspects of their flawed movement so they can understand what it is what we all are dealing with. We are struggling with a shortsighted adversary gang; of this you can be sure. They are winning small skirmishes and lauding their efforts all the while losing the war while they don’t even know it. No, they aren’t as ‘unaware’ as Jean Luc was, as he tried to make amends not realizing what he was actually doing, but they simply don’t comprehend what it is they are giving up with every ‘victory’ they claim. A victory for men is a loss for women and that’s simply how they see it, consequences be damned.


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Well gang things have changed quite drastically since I started my full time job almost a decade and a half ago. During the first decade of my employment, my contingent was made up of men. We didn’t have to worry about what we said to and about each other, due to the fact that we were all men and were used to the male ribbing we had been exposed to since adolescence. That had changed almost two years ago when we underwent tremendous expansion and introduced the first females into our positions in our tiny but growing company.

Our team of men grew from just a journeyman, and myself to another two men who required training, to finally a group of 10 members, in which four of them are female.

Now don’t get me wrong my fellow denizens of the Manosphere, the ladies we initially hired at first grabbed respect pretty handily. They didn’t hide behind their gender and are quite adept at their jobs. I have no issue going to bat for them whatsoever as they have proved their worth many times over. Moreover, they had NO issues stating that much of what they could do was solely due to the assistance of the men on the team.

The role we fill varies greatly, some days are simply filled with deludes of paperwork being completed on a computer, other days are very labor intensive in which the power which men alone can provide becomes crucial to the success of the job assigned.  Granted I have to relay this issue, which had been repeated when our female contingent grew from one member to our current four. At every stage I can remember hearing our female members stating that they DIDN’T wish for any additional females to join our ranks. The answer was always the same; the women we did have where awesome, but they simply didn’t know about anyone new coming into the fold

Due to my Manosphere education, I knew full well of their reservations, which brings me to this current situation. We’ve a new recruit amongst our ranks and is raring to be recognized. I can’t lie, she’s adept at what she does and is very eager to learn, and therefore I treated her in the same manner as the other three females we hired onto our team. I was wary at first after hearing about the so many issues many Manosphere denizens have had with women in the workplace but I thought we had been lucky so far so we really had nothing to fear. However, it was only this week that I had noticed three things, which have bestowed a tiny inkling about a possible foreboding future on our team.

Strike one; A conversation I had with her in regards to current television shows turns into her stating how our society is victimizing women without one word from her in regards to the issues facing men. This alone wouldn’t have been such an issue but it lead to…

Strike two; My helping her during a procedure which required quite a bit of physical strength and her stating to me “You know Omni…I DO work out.”  The procedure we were engaged in at the time wasn’t the most pleasant and in the end I still had to assist her regardless. I was still reeling about this situation when a day later…

Strike three; Someone had brought in some Girl Guide Cookies and our new recruit had made a statement regarding the illustration on the cookie box. She had stated how young girls only used binoculars and chased after butterflies as depicted on the image covering the box. Her sarcasm was dripping heavily but I don’t think anyone was Red Pill enough to catch what was being thrown.


I guess the party maybe over gang.  Quite possibly things may change drastically after her probationary period is up. She’s qualified and diligent enough that her employment is all but guaranteed. In addition, the upcoming projects we have coming down the pipe means that we are desperately in need of more ‘man’power (see what I did there). Part of me worries about what the future will bring to our department, but due to the current situation in society, it was bound to happen to us eventually. In reality, it was only a matter of time, and I guess our time has finally come. I could be wrong, and I hope that this is indeed the case. However, due to the strikes that I’ve seen so readily, I’ve somewhat detached from this new recruit in the hopes of creating some much-needed distance in case something does go awry.


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30 Is Not The New 20

Ironically enough, I came across this link on Facebook. This short Video is Clinical Psychologist Meg Jay presenting some truths from her book “The Defining Decade.” I have to say that while Meg didn’t touch on many red pill topics, she did go over some realities on how most Western 20-somethings view their lives and how complacency can lead to a not so compelling future.  While some denizens of the Manosphere may not appreciate how much she focuses on 20 something women rather than men, I believe that her message is very valuable nonetheless.

Let’s be honest gang, the years between 20 and 30 are far more important to women than they are to men. A man hasn’t even reached his peak during this time while a woman’s SMV and fertility peaks and starts to decline during this important decade. She speaks about how women should actually take the time to be mindful of the choices they make during this valuable time and how quickly it can fade if she isn’t careful.

Listen gang, our forebears had a large sense of urgency to marry and have kids as the world carried harsh penalties for those who didn’t plan adequately. I can remember a comment on The Spearhead long ago lamenting why a woman in a backwoods hut in a 3rd world country seems to have a better idea about her fertility and value to a man than an educated woman living in a first world country. The reason simply is that current Western technological advances and our relatively ‘cushy’ lives have eliminated many of the negative consequences, which spurred on our ancestors.  The 3rd world woman HAS to keep abreast of her value since her life still depends on finding a decent man. Western Woman, not so much which is why so much complacency has set in.

All in all, Meg does a good job of stating some truths many Western Women are in dire need of hearing. Maybe the mainstream media is picking up on the fact that carousel hopping may not be the most beneficial manner in which a woman can waste spend her prime years. I’m hoping that many women take to heart her message and heed her warning. However…I’m not holding my breath, most women never consider such a sad fate ever befalling them.


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Incentive; Pain and Pleasure Revisited

Been a while gang, sorry for the delay. Just trying to get back into the swing of things at work after a long absence. Now, some may say that I’m jumping onto this bandwagon a little late, but I disagree. The point I wish to illuminate is something that I’ve been stating for a while now in terms of trying to show women the issues behind feminism.  As I’ve said before; women won’t listen to any man stating the obvious downfalls of the Feminist movement while stating how it negatively affects men. No gang, if you wish to drive the point home you need to hit ‘em where it hurts. Namely, how it will affect them negatively.

I believe this post comes at a very timely juncture, during the fact that the Toronto Maple Laffs…I mean Leafs have made it to the playoffs for the first time in years!! I had already explained their dismal performance in the past, but everyone needs to revisit why their bleak performance is relevant to anyone on the Manosphere. To quickly recap my post on the topic; the Leafs lose nothing by being perennial losers in the NHL. They are STILLthe most profitable hockey team in the league no matter what they do, win, lose, or draw. The reward/penalty paradigm doesn’t seem to affect them for one reason or another, so there is no driving force for them to seek in order to put wins on the board because the fans will pay large prices regardless.

I could be wrong, but if I where a betting man, I would say that the Leafs WON’T win the Stanley Cup, yet their balance sheet still wont be negatively affected regardless next season. At this point, all the extra money the owners rake in is simply gravy. Bluntly, no negative consequences or penalty to avoid exist, so there’s no reason to add extra effort or change what may not be working.

So, what has this got to do with the Manosphere and Feminism you may ask?

Here we have a few links of some die-hard Feminists and/or entitled Western Women now reconsidering their previous ways. However, the main question we all need to ask is WHY!! Why is it that after all the criticizing that men have done over the years, why after all the times we have tried to show them how mankind is hurting, and why after we have tried to start a dialog that these women have finally stopped and are now reconsidering their past choices?

Simply put…because Feminism, which bestowed these women with so many benefits at the expense of men, has now imparted some negative penalties onto these same women, which they thought themselves insulated from.  Mothers who are now grandmothers who had kept the birth fathers from their children now realizing that younger women can use this same power against their younger sons!! Essentially keeping them away from seeing their grandchildren.

Powerful Feminists who have championed the cause of women, now realizing just how much power, which women can abuse for frivolous reasons now that this situation has befallen their own male children. In addition, other influential Feminists hearing the truth from the mouth of babes and possibly realizing that their grrl powa may have gone just a bit too far.

This is the point I wish to drive home to all who read The Phantom Tollbooth. If you want to get a woman to think twice about Feminism, hit ‘em where it hurts’ namely, how it will (and I mean will) eventually affect them negatively.  These women are now second-guessing their life’s work, and others are simply aghast that the power that they had abused when they where younger could POSSIBLY be used by another woman against their own male child. TFH always states that women by and large have a poor grasp of cause and effect, this post and the links provided seem to add credence to his statement.

It seems funny and sad in a way that so many Western Women seem to enjoy their current power over men but never even consider that another woman could use that SAME power against their bothers, fathers, uncles, or sons. Had any one of the many false rape apologists, beneficiaries of ‘frivorce’ and affirmative action considered what they where doing to other innocent brothers, fathers uncles or sons of other women?

This is the main push of this post; they didn’t because they never faced any negative consequences for doing so…yet. It never affected their personal household or sphere of influence. Therefore so many Western Women and Feminists will continue to bray on about their so-called ‘Patriarchal Victimization’ until they personally feel the sting of Female entitlement when it hits THEM negatively. The biggest negative that they will have to face; when many men may dismiss their positions and ask them to justify their previous positions.


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Expanding on Why the Manosphere Exists

I encountered this brilliant post by Keanu on Youngmanredpill talking about why it was the Manosphere is currently in existence. Why so many men are seeking it out while looking for a safe place to provide answers. His post even answered why so many of them are so angry due to their past. It’s a primer written in response to a query by a young female reader of his. I was going to comment but it turned into this current post. Keanu wrote why younger men seek out the Manosphere, but allow me to shed some light as to why older men have sought it as well.

You see, older denizens of the Manosphere started out just like Keanu had pointed out, but the injustice doesn’t stop there. Their issues carried on well into marriage and adulthood and these same issues are something Western men have to face every day of their lives. I feel the need to follow the same vein that Keanu started so I will relate my own tale as well as the tales of some friends of mine to prove my point. They have had to face the feminized justice system, which in turn has made them quite angry.

You see, after many men suffer from the brutal dating market as Keanu pointed out, then they have to face a feminized society as they marry, rear children and start a family. The mainstream media has bought into the ‘Man bad, woman good’ paradigm hook, line, and sinker so men are on the hot seat before things even get started. In the event that a man has legitimate beefs with his partner in a marriage, you can bet your bottom dollar that his issues will not only be ignored, but he will be vilified for having them in the first place. Men are essentially told that their jobs are to sit down, shut up, and provide for a woman despite her shortcomings. They are then told that they are LUCKY to have this woman in their lives so their issues have no base in reality to begin with.

My friend WL is a man who a few years back was arrested for spousal assault, which didn’t even occur. Didn’t matter though, she called it in, and he got hauled off to the slammer. I can honestly say that I’ve met his wife and she leaves MUCH to be desired. He married her because when they where dating, she got pregnant, and he manned up like any good adult male is supposed to. Even though he’s the sole breadwinner, she treats him like dirt to the point where my own wife felt the need to stand up for him after she found her making disparaging remarks about him on Facebook. He did manage to come back after this little kerfuffle (cough) but I can tell you right now that not much has changed. He’s there for the kids, because if he divorces he’ll lose them and most of his paycheque.

Then my friend DC told me of his situation with the family courts. His ex wife had changed drastically after they where married and she used her considerable leverage to penalize him every chance she had after they divorced. He hasn’t seen his daughter in years, and was actually told by his counsel that since he pays support, the chances of him seeing her are slim to none. The truth is that men who DON’T pay actually are flagged by the Canadian Family Responsibility Office and they seem to have more leverage in this regard.

People need to take a real good long look at what has just been posted above. That a man who doesn’t follow the rules has more leverage and power than a man who does. This won’t be the only time you see this example and THAT is the reason why Western Society is going down the tubes!! That my friends is, the reason why women wonder ‘where all the good men have gone?’

Even longtime commenter Legion commented on how his married life had gone before his wife called it quits on him. I say this in order to drive a point home; I’m a happily married man…and fast becoming a rapidly declining demographic. It’s to the point where I simply can’t advise a man to marry in good conscience any longer. It’s become too much of a minefield for men and carries no guarantees that any offsetting benefits will be brought to bear.

This is the reality most men face when it comes to marriage. Women have no compunction to uphold their part of the bargain when it comes to nuptials, which they’re told they are entitled to. However they seem to get their noses right out of joint when men balk at theirs. There’s a term gaining steam in the Manosphere known as ‘Frivorce’, which basically means a woman frivolously ending her marriage despite the consequences. Women initiate 75% of all divorces, taking with them the children and leaving her ex husband on the financial hook, sometimes indefinitely.

Now this is just marriage, it spills over into other parts of life as well.

The mainstream media is also in on this little ‘game’ making so many men out to be nothing more than dithering morons who are nothing without the feminine leading lady. Just ask yourself this one question, just how many real manly male characters does one see in prime time television?  Men are subjected to being told that their role in the family is redundant despite their being much data stating that fathers are a stabilizing force in the family. I’ve seen it firsthand and you have no idea just how much fathers are VERY necessary. Here’s a question for you, when has anyone ever heard that ‘Mommy is Useless’? Ponder that one for a second.

Years ago before I even had taken the red pill, I had encountered a commenter on a relationship forum who had dubbed Lifetime as ‘The Evil White Man’s Network’ since it stuck to the ‘White men bad, women good’ Paradigm religiously. I say this as a Black man, I’m utterly shocked at how many television shows and advertisements depict White men as feckless morons in this day and age. Sadly, as soon as a White man complains, he’s always labeled as a racist, just as many men are labeled as misogynists for speaking out about the very real injustice men face today.

Then we have wonderful little Easter Eggs like affirmative action and false rape allegations, which stymie men even further. Most men have no qualms when a man who is guilty or unqualified gets his just rewards. The issue is that when the qualified or the straightforwardly innocent get railroaded, then this tends to get our backs up. Some men are actually forgoing any and all interactions with women simply out of self-protection; this is the reality which feminism has wrought in certain cases.

I hope this sheds a little light on why men flock to the one of the only places left where they can seek comfort in this day and age. No, men aren’t perfect and many men will tell you themselves this very true fact. The bottom line is that women have a lot to answer for in this day and age, but they are being protected from the consequences of such action thus far. In addition, they are actually held up as heroes for this injustice which one must understand, mixes up the traditional reward – punishment paradigm which made civilization possible.

Bluntly, men are being punished for being good men. While they are young they are trampled in the brutal dating market and once older, a feminized society, a vicious mainstream media, and an unforgiving family court system trample them. Men are angry because they were told in the past that they had wronged women and decided to change their ways. They listened when women had aired their misgivings and are vexed because by doing so they simply opened themselves up to injustice. Moreover, men are further incensed when they try to open up a dialog about their very real issues and are shut down and maligned for doing so.

This is why the Manosphere exists; it’s simply a response to the ever growing anti male sentiment all men face in Western Countries.


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Condense the Nonsense!!!


I guess its time for another rant but I’m very tired of the attitude many men have in Western Countries regarding Feminism. If you’re a man wishing and hoping that women will get the gist of our issues and will put a halt to the Jihad they are putting on men then I have one suggestion for you all.

Bring a chair.

Folks, we need to get real about the situation, as ugly as it may look to us. To be blunt, women kind WILL NOT put a halt on the attack they have put on us UNTIL it no longer serves their benefit. Well, let me put it another way. They won’t stop giving men the gears until doing so serves to their detriment. I know what you’re saying, that if you speak enough about our very real and easily seen issues, that women by and large will see what they are doing and stop the unfairness they are pushing in society, right?

Yes, I know that there are women who have seen the light and are assisting in the revocation of feminism, but sadly it seems that they are the exception rather than the rule when it comes to common sense in regards to the situation!! I’m glad that they see where this whole situation will lead us, but sadly I think that while logic brought them over to our side, it may be lost on many of our sisters who will sadly have to learn the hard way rather than hear us out.

Heck, if we tell many women the truth and share with them the reality in regards to the Misandry Bubble, they will see the fallacies, which they chase so vociferously and we hope they will call off their misandrous tirade. The truth was shared in a post I had made over a year ago in regards to the situation at hand. As a Canadian and a Torontonian, I’m pleased that the Maple Leafs are doing well this shortened season. However I’m not holding my breath until this season passes and we see how they perform in the future. Just as I’m anxious about the Leafs, I’m telling any man reading this post that they need to be just as anxious about any woman they believe will take up the cause for Men’s Rights!!

The reason why the Leafs  have been perennially CRAP up until this time is due to one fact even after all these years. That human beings will work harder to keep from LOSING something than to gain ANYTHING. Bluntly, we will bust our @$$es to avoid pain than we will to gain pleasure.

Write that down in your notebooks everyone, this is a major factor in human thought process that I’m sharing with you!!!

As I have posted before, the Toronto Maple Leafs, a professional sports team, has been crap for decades due to the fact that whether they win or lose, they are the most profitable sports team in the NHL. Most teams have to worry about the win and loss column affecting their bottom line. The Leafs, for whatever reason, do not and this affects their choices on and off the ice. This is the very same reason why women by and large care little to nothing about the plight of men. Whether we men keep quiet or scream in the streets, this affects their general lifestyle VERY little so why would many women care?

I know this is hard to hear, it was a very hard lesson for me to accept myself, but it doesn’t make it any less true!!!

This is the main reason why ‘talking’ to most women about our issues simply devolves into a shouting/shaming match between two forces who aren’t listening to the other. Whether this happens online on in person matters little, women do not care for the sole reason as their livelihood is unaffected by our differing viewpoint!! This is also the reason why even after all this time that Feminism really hasn’t budged after everything we MRA’s have found out and made public to many unsuspecting men.

The reality; you have to hit ‘em where it hurts otherwise you are simply a gnat buzzing by the cow’s @$$ before it takes it’s tail and swats you. Kate Harding didn’t ‘join the team’ until the situation forced her hand. Some feminist websites didn’t drop their obvious leanings until it didn’t serve their purpose to continue in that vein.

If we want more women to join our ranks and realize the issues behind feminism, then we have to show them how continuing their present course will only serve to undermine their own interests. The bottom line is that we are spinning our wheels if we think otherwise.


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But I’m a NICE Sexist

Yes that’s right everyone, apparently our Federal Minister of Fisheries had decided to really put his foot in his mouth by making a sexist remark to a high school student. A rundown of events c/o CBC news;

“In Fredericton, MP and federal Fisheries Minister Keith Ashfield, invited the media to a staged family conversation about the budget with Roland and Gina Moreno and their two daughters.

It was an opportunity to highlight the government’s emphasis on training young people for jobs the economy needs, but things went awkwardly off-script at the start as Ashfield sampled baked goods and chatted with eldest daughter Grace Moreno, a local high school student leader.Grace, you’re a great cook,” Ashfield said. “You’re going to make a wonderful wife for somebody.”

I know, what an appalling thing to say to a young woman!! The unmitigated gall of this supposed learned man and exemplar of society!!

Thankfully we had two people decide to stand up to this man for his very large breach of public etiquette especially in this enlightened day and age. Political Analyst Lisa Kirbie was quoted as saying;

“In what universe is it acceptable to tell a young woman that she’s going to make someone a great wife one day,”

Agreed Lisa, what universe would THAT be? She’s not alone; we also have NDP Member of Parliament, Megan Leslie ALSO chiming in with;

“His comments were disrespectful. Come on…’Grace, you’re a great cook, you’re going to make a wonderful wife for somebody.’ In other words, there-there, stop planning for your future.”

Thankfully someone has seen this compliment for exactly what it is and bringing this to everyone’s attention! Mr. Ashfield tried to save face from his thoughtless blunder but simply deflected things instead;

“Mr. Speaker, obviously the opposition has little to find in fault in our budget…if this is the only type of question it could ask.”

Trying to escape the heat Mr. Ashfield? You must know by now that the federal budget is nothing compared to a sexist comment hidden under the thinly veiled guise as a compliment! It doesn’t matter that you may have been sincere and had no ulterior motives or plans when you uttered such domineering wickedness!! Don’t you know that marriage for women is oppression, how could you have said such a thing? Well, we have a little insight into what this man was thinking after his office sent this message to Yahoo! Canada News.

“I would like to thank the Moreno family for taking the time to discuss Canada’s Economic Action Plan 2013. The family’s insightful comments and feedback are valuable to me and our Government as we continue to build a strong and prosperous nation.

“My comments to Grace Moreno have been taken out of context and were simply meant to compliment her on her genuine hospitality.

“Ms. Moreno is a gifted and active young member of her high school and our greater community. And she has a great future ahead of her.

“I am proud of our youth and I appreciate the contributions that she and other youth continue to make to our community and country.”

Sorry, this message is too little, too late Mr. Ashfield. It appears more re-education is necessary in order to rid this world of these outdated opinions and stereotypes. However, I’d have more confidence that we could wash away this Sexism for good if there wasn’t a large portion of the commentariat agreeing that this was blown out of proportion. If anything, from their comments it seems people would like us to be less politically correct, gosh I wonder why.


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This post may be ill advised, but I’m tired of taking this crap at the moment. I was trying to find a brilliant post I had linked to and I found that it had been deleted.  Then while trying to find it, I found THIS!!!

Here’s the deal;

I’m NOT some friggin’ basement dweller that wishes he had a woman to save his life. I’m a happily married man with stepchildren who has seen the light and recognized the issues men have to deal with in Western Society. In this post, I will admit that I’m FAR from what many would consider an ‘Alpha Male’ as what I have done to get to this point would show that I’m what’s considered an evolutionary ‘dead end’.

That being said, I can see VERY clearly how that post I had linked to was completely ON POINT in terms of common sense. That post was deleted due to the fact that it was more of a headache than anything else, but it doesn’t change the fact that it was 100% true.  A career woman trying to find their one true love at the age of 46 has quite an uphill battle ahead of them. Impossible…maybe not, but it’s akin to trying to get on a pro sports team at the same age.

We can label it as ‘misogyny’ or we can realize that the truth of the matter and that it’s nothing but common sense!!! Even at the ‘low’ level that I seemingly exist at, I personally have found that women who I wouldn’t have had the guts to approach when I was younger, have approached me since I’ve aged and gotten married. (edit; this approach doesn’t work out so well for women though, sad but true!!)

This is life, not ageism, not misogyny, nothing but COMMON SENSE. If you wait to approach men after your high season has passed (15 – 25), then your feedback will act accordingly.  If you have a problem with this, then take it up with the Chairman of the board, that is if you can find Mother Nature’s secretary which no one as of yet has been able to accomplish!!!

Want a tip? Don’t try to find the sexiest dudes AFTER the sun has set on your best assets. If you don’t like this answer, don’t worry. Others will easily take your place!!!


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Pride or Prejudice?


A friend of mine had showed me this after a friend of his posted this on Facebook. I’m compelled to post this on the Phantom Tollbooth as I agree with the crux of this message.

 To any of my friends of color this is not a personal attack or meant to be offensive to you. However I do think this man has some valid points in what he says.

Why Can’t We Be Proud To Be White ?

I have been wondering about why Whites are racists, and no other
race is. Proud-to-be-white Michael Richards makes his point…

Michael Richards better known as Kramer from TVs Seinfeld does make a good point. This was his defense speech in court after making racial comments in his comedy act. He makes some very interesting points… Someone finally said it… How many are actually paying attention to this?

There are African Americans, Mexican Americans, Asian Americans, Arab Americans, etc. And then there are just Americans. You pass me
on the street and sneer in my direction. You call me ‘White boy,’
‘Cracker,’ ‘ Honkey,’ ‘Whitey,’ ‘Caveman’ … and that’s OK.

But when I call you, n****r, Kike, Towel head, Sand-n****r, Camel
Jockey, Beaner, Gook, or Chink … You call me a racist. You say
that whites commit a lot of violence against you… so why are the ghettos the most dangerous
places to live?

You have the United Negro College Fund. You have Martin Luther King Day. You have Black History Month. You have Cesar Chavez Day. You have Yom Hashoah. You have Ma’uled Al-Nabi. You have the NAACP.

You have BET… If we had WET (White Entertainment Television) we’d be racists. If we had a White Pride Day, you would call us racists. If we had White History Month, we’d be racists.

If we had any organization for only whites to ‘advance’ OUR lives
we’d be racists.

We have a Hispanic Chamber of Commerce, a Black Chamber of
Commerce, and then we just have the plain Chamber of Commerce. Wonder who pays for that??

A white woman could not be in the Miss Black American pageant,
but any color can be in the Miss America pageant.

If we had a college fund that only gave white students scholarships
…You know we’d be racists.

There are over 60 openly proclaimed Black Colleges in the US. Yet if there were ‘White colleges’ that would be a racist college.

In the Million Man March, you believed that you were marching for your race and rights. If we marched for our race and rights, you would call us racists.

You are proud to be black, brown, yellow and orange, and you’re
not afraid to announce it. But when we announce our white pride, you call us racists.

You rob us, carjack us, and shoot at us. But, when a white police officer shoots a black gang member or beats up a black drug-dealer running from the law and posing a threat to society, you call him a racist.

I am proud…But you call me a racist. Why is it that only whites
can be racists??

There is nothing improper about this e-mail…Let’s see which of
you are proud enough to send it on. I sadly don’t think many will.
That’s why we have lost most of OUR RIGHTS in this country.

We won’t stand up for ourselves!

BE PROUD TO BE WHITE ! It’s not a crime yet,
but getting real close!

Now here’s the deal everyone, I’m a Black man living in North America, but I posted this because it had to be said. Sure, one could state that all North Americans learn White History in school and therefore they don’t require a month of their own. In addition, we could point our fingers at ‘White Privilege’ as to why it is that Whites shouldn’t complain and ‘spread the wealth’ as it where.

However these arguments only confuse the situation at hand. Boil things down to their core and you have one simple thing; that when a White person complains about the very real injustice they face, they are derided for it.

Folks, this ISN’T right!!!

It seems to me that due to the fact that it was mostly White’s who settled North America and stood together to forge this continent, that they are being punished for it now. I say this because of the very same reason why I stand up for Men’s rights. Complaining about so-called ‘White Privilege’ makes White’s racist about as much as complaining about Feminism makes a man a misogynist. There are very real issues being faced here, we need to take a look and see what the deal is.

Folks, if you doubt me then I need you all to follow up with this little homework assignment. Do yourselves a favor and tally up every commercial, radio advert, and television show, which displays men in a negative light. Then, I need you to tally up the ones, which target White men specifically. You’d be surprised just how much White men are made to look like dunce caps due to their ‘White Privilege’. I’m not saying that racism doesn’t exist. Nor am I saying that other races don’t sometimes get the sh!t end of the stick. All I’m saying is that NO ONE is standing up for White People, and that isn’t right to say the least!!!

It’s high time we recognized this fact and called it like it was.


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